=I'm BacK!!=
Okie.. i noe i've Mia for quite some time..hehe...been REAL busy lahz... aniwae had a GREAT-FANTASTIC-UNBELIEVABLE-INCREDIBLE-WONDERFUL-FULFILLING-HOT-TIRING-MUSCLE ACHING-watever blah blah - week over the past few days......
Went to Perhentian again~ to complete my OWL...yes...YES!! finally i'm a CERTIFIED OW...hehehe.... happy siaz....=P Oh yes... many many tings happened....tt caught me by surprise... keke... *actually oredi expected lahz..but then decide nt to think so much... but in the end..it did come true! :) * woohOoo...quick congratulate me...*winks*
Now.. there's even more to "think"... oh manz.. sO excited... still in a state of "shock"..totally "speechless"..."dunno-wad-to-say"... hmm... ok lahz.. enuff of this... let me share wit u all wad i see during the trip instead....hehe.... i saw some of the rare species *esp for first timers - as per said by Bee* : Sea Turtle, a School of Dolphins, Bamboo Shark, blue-spotted stingray... big fishes, small fishes, many many fishes, small corals, big corals, many many corals.... hahaha...
think they are all there to congratulate me... hehe... wad a joyous occasion...:)
oh ya...before i forget... we went over to Redang during our 3rd day also...- beautiful place... with white soft sand on the beach and clear, blue sea....OoOoo... nicEeee....=P .... but i knocked my head on the bottom of the boat when surfacing!! *concuss*
Most imptly, it was also our anniversary on that day...and it was also the day we saw all the "good-luck" animals right after another...wad a coincidence..(",) *will upload the video of wad happened at Karang Cik Isa soon..* <3
ok lahz... show u the pics...which represent a thousand words......*courtesy of Bee & company*
*drum roll please...**
this is a newly-branch...cute hor?... actually its very very small...hard to spot underwater if u r not observant enuff...
See how HUGE the jellyfish is??... - even bigger than a human head...OMG... and..no...tt's not me in the background... haha
This is then me.... hahaha.... okie... i noe my hair is messy...
Sea Turtle!!.... Very very Very BIG.... hehe... Bee says "its a sign of good fortune" and i totally agree... coz not all of us saw it!!...:P
Okay..these r the 3 "smug-prouD-coNteNteD-haPpy" CERTIFIED OW!!! YIPPEEE!!!!
hee.... share 1 very SWEET foto.... hehez... *see the 2 nemos kissing?* - so loving....
Just like the 2 of us....always...=P
show u all how to kiss underwater in almost 20metres deep...next time...hehe...=X
p/s: i'm still waiting to hear u say those words in person...:)
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4:58 PM
=What Is Most Important=
People get very caught up in the search for success rather than doing what they already know how to do and then doing it until it works.
If you struggle with the doing, then you need to visit the WHY
Your success is not a matter of doing many things, it is about doing a couple of things exceptionally well and everyome can learn to do that.-Brian Mennis, Author Average to Awesome
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decided to share my office timetable... hahahaha (see below)
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1:40 PM
=Attitude=
The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill.
It will make or break a company . a church . a home. The remarkable thing is that we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past . we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude .
I am convinced that life is 10 percent what happens to me and 90 percent how I react to it.-Charles Swindell
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1:34 PM
=Choosing to Forgive=
No one likes to talk about forgiveness, because for most people I think it has a religious connotation. But the dictionary definition of "forgive" is "to stop feeling angry or resentful towards something." And I'm sure many people have managed to do that. I know I have, and I know how hard it is. To let go of feeling wronged is probably the hardest part. I had been living with a friend for two years and many things he was doing were really bothering me-I felt they weren't good for him emotionally or physically, and I hated being around the consequences. I started to get very angry in my interactions with him. We finally had a blow-up, and when he pointed out that I was behaving badly, too, I was flabbergasted. All my righteous (or so I thought) indignation vanished and I realized that, no matter how irritated I may get, I ultimately loved my friend and wanted to continue to live with him. It's true that "to love is to forgive all." And to forgive feels great. After a long conversation, my friend looked at me and said, "I'm so glad we could let go of all that. I feel like I've shed a skin." I had to agree. And while we've had fights since then, the moment of catharsis I had when I decided to forgive has always stayed with me.
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1:31 PM
=A Winner's Image =
Picture for a moment, an image of yourself five years from today, enjoying everything you want to be, do and have. Imagine it all in every perfect detail with the people in your life congratulating you for your outstanding achievements over the past five years.
The moment you begin building this picture is the moment a deep desire begins to build within you and you begin to generate an enthusiasm to achieve this image.
This image you hold of being a winner is about to enter the most critical area of making it a reality. It is now going to begin to cross a line where so few salespeople continue and so many turn back. It is the area where goals are changed from positive goals that move you ahead toward success, to negative goals that move you back into safety. This area is called 'excessive feedback' and comes from the world around you in the form of conditions and circumstances and from the world within you, such as doubt, worry and fears of rejection, not to mention the fears of success. "What happens if I succeed?"
The 'excessive feedback' that salespeople receive is both positive and negative. A salesperson with a winner's image will see the feedback as the raw material to mould and shape the desired results while many salespeople settle for less than what they could be simply because they allow the feedback to define who they are rather than seeing it as something outside of them.
Negative feedback does not say "stop what you are doing". It does not say "you are not good enough to pull it off". It is saying to "modify what you are doing".
Consider this: In my one on one meetings with salespeople, I often discover that they feel their uncertainty is about a lack of ability when in reality, the uncertainty is a signal that they are leaving their comfort zone. Understand that it is not a signal to stop; it is a signal that you may be on the right track. Remember, goals immediately create discomfort.
The Winner's Image is an idea of what you can be. It is an image that is a promise of what can manifest as reality with a consistent and persistent action to first achieve it in the mind.Belief, not ability determines performance.
The process of building this Winner's Image begins by developing the habit of living in the moment. Why? Because your creative nature does not function in tomorrow. You can and should make long-range plans but don't try living tomorrow. Create it by living in the moment of today.
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1:29 PM
=Grumble-Time=
Sick-and-Tired-Of-my-Own-life.Work.School.Money.Life.EverytinG.Useless.Can't-EvEn-sOlve-my-own-Problems.Bad-Problem-sOlver-in-Life.Disappointed.Upset.Angry.Sad.Tears.Non-stoP.Said-in-a-Fit-of-aNgeR.Misunderstood.doesn't-feel-good.dun-wish-to-explain-any-further.felt-so-unimportant-in-life.treated-worse-than-a-dirt.worse-moments-in-life.
want-to-feel-good.pause.reflecting-time.imperfect-me.nv-gd-enuff.stop-dreaming-of-the-impossible.be-realistic-in-life.no-more-rush-hr.hopeless.wake-up-time.
To-all-my-friends,
if ever a day... i come to u and start complaining... kip grumbling non-stop... perhaps im not directing at u...rather im having problems in other areas of life... i jz nid another outlet to vent... sorry u r the unlucky one tt is chosen by me... sorry if i will spoil ur day as a result of this... sorry i cant cheer up immediately even if u've tried ur best....i dun nid u to do anything.. i dun nid u to solve my problems for me.. i dun nid another lecture from u...all i nid from u... is to grumble with me... or at least... jz let me continue for a while.... very soon...i'll be alrite... pls dun expect me to switch mood at a snap of finger... pls dun get angry at me jz becz of tis... becz it doesnt help... but in fact...made me even worse than before...
im feeling damm terrible nw... had nv felt so useless in life b4....felt so "yuan wang" for being misunderstood for the wrong intentions...
WARNING!!
NEVER, i mean NEVER EVER SCOLD VULGARITIES at anyone DEAR / IMPORTANT to u....no matter how angry or mad u r.... even if u really dont mean it... even if u said it in a fit of anger... once the word is out... it will jz break the other party's heart totally.... really... it will....
always tink twice becz it may started off as "unintentional" to "habit" to"intentional"...
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aniway....
=HAppy National Day Singapore!!!!==
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11:23 PM