...thE gEr frOm yEstErdaY...

Y Tuesday, May 27, 2008

[Piece by Piece]

Acceptance is a double edge sword. It is a vital aspect of our every day lives in that our socializations and relationships are necessary conduits to our personal and spiritual success yet it can also be a difficult and intrusive source of grief as we attempt to please all of those around us.

It is important to accept that not everyone around you will be pleased with your work and activities at all times, and that is ok. Not every fruit you pick will be the sweetest. So long as you are keeping your commitments to the very best of your ability you are building a firm foundation from which to further develop relationships. These commitments and relationships must be fulfilling in order for you to create new ones and strengthen existing ones, thus you must be finding your own sense of satisfaction from them in order for it to be a positive experience at all.

Don't get caught up in the Santa Clause. It is not your duty to fulfill everyone around you at all times. Some people just don't know how to stop demanding.

"The man who trims himself to suit everybody will soon whittle himself away."
-Charles Schwab

aNd i sAy..

9:35 AM

Y Sunday, May 25, 2008

[it's not that bad afterall..]

i tot i cant survive the weekend..... but i'm glad i did... spending the days alone at home is nt as bad as it seems...though its really boring...... hahahaha

just 1 more day and he'll be back.... so happy.... mish him so much... the moment he left... my heart went off with him... haiz... kip thinking of him..... guess i cant live without him....*shy*

can't wait for him to be back tml nite......Ooooohhh... so happy... i jz mish him so much....

aNd i sAy..

4:37 PM

Y Tuesday, May 20, 2008

[Woman's Instinct]

almost 90% accurate except the 10% which sometimes.... is just a lack of communication...

It's a golden rule that communication and trust is extremely important in any relationship.. if in doubt...always 'ASK'.....

i've learnt to ask..instead to question.... and im glad the issue is resolved....and end with a smile on the face..

i'm beginning to fall in love again..... again with you......*muacks*

....

aNd i sAy..

10:09 PM

Y Thursday, January 10, 2008

[The X]

X marks the spot, so they say. Our days are rife with questions and demands that can become incredibly distracting, leading us to focus on things that may not be necessary to what we are trying to achieve. Many of us are searching for answers when all we need do is allow them to come to us.

Trust me when I say that your energy can be conserved, that as long as you are focused on your goal the answers you are looking for will find you along the way.

"All you have to do is know where you are going. The answers will come to you of their own accord."-Earl Nightengale

[Desire makes play]

Life is all about desire and how badly you want something. Should you feel your daily tasks are too taxing, perhaps you are in the wrong field and don't want it enough.

One quality of highly successful people that is incredibly common is their intense, unwavering desire and love for what they do. Their results and accomplishments are so integral to their lives that they almost could not live without them. This makes their work into play, makes whatever toil into ease and turns hardships into pleasant challenges. You must desire what you think about and think about what you desire; this is the key to making your work into a lifelong endeavour of love.

"The more I want to get something done, the less I call it work."-Richard Bach

aNd i sAy..

10:04 AM

Y Saturday, December 29, 2007

ok...noe i've been MIA for very very very long..... been real busy....lotsa happening....but i guess the most important news is still.....

I'M GETTING MARRIEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

haha... okok.... stressed out....

guys... please SAVE THE DATES!!!!

ROM - 14 February 2008 (Valentine's Day)

Wedding Banquet - 03 January 2009

Please kindly make these 2 dates free to join us in this joyous occasion ya... will let u guys know more details in due time...:P

Meantime.... i have to LOSE WEIGHT!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

aNd i sAy..

2:04 AM

Y Tuesday, October 23, 2007

HOW TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR JOB ALL OVER AGAIN?

Remember how exciting it was when you first fell in love? Your heart did somersaults every time you met the one you loved. The two of you sat up talking all night. And you always seemed to have so much energy. The thrill of falling in love is wonderful.

Soon enough, of course, reality set in, and you had to start working to make the relationship succeed. That's good, of course. It's how you truly grow to know and love the other person.

In many ways, a new job is like a love affair. The first stage is excitement. It can last from an hour to many years. You think to yourself, "This job will pay me more money than I've ever earned before. The clients will be wonderful to deal with. I'm going to learn so much and do really exciting things." The novelty of the job keeps your energy high. You are happy because you are so productive, and you're more productive because you are so happy.

Then the second stage, reality, sets in. You still enjoy the work you do, but you begin to notice some of the irritants and difficulties. It bothers you that all the phones are ringing when you walk in the door. Deadlines seem endless and impossible. It becomes harder to arrive early or stay late. The novelty starts to wear off. And, like love, your job has a third stage too disillusion. The pendulum swings past reality, and you find yourself focusing on the negative things. That's when the "maybes" begin. "Maybe I could make better money at Company X, and not have to work so hard." "Maybe I'd be happier with more responsibility at Corporation Y." "Maybe Company Z would let me come in a little later in the mornings or go home earlier at night."

In jobs, as in love, it's very important for the pendulum to swing back. You need to work to regain the exhilaration of the first stage. Such excitement is essential to a fulfilling life. Think about what you did to keep the thrill in your love life. Maybe the two of you relived your first date at that little country restaurant, or you thought to thank your loved one for being kind and generous. In short, you remembered to see the person you first fell in love with.

Apply this same technique to your career. Rekindle the thrill you felt when you first began your job. You must have had good reasons for taking it. What were they? Make a list of them, and expect to experience those joys again in your daily routine.

Begin each day with a smile. Anticipate having a productive, stimulating day. Isn't that how you used to come to work in the morning? If you really expect to be productive, I guarantee that almost nothing can stop you. Here are some practical staying-in-love techniques:

• Have a good breakfast to give you the energy and protein, which you so badly need first thing in the morning.

• Dress with as much pride and attention to detail as you did on your first day of work.

• Start each day with motivated people who talk about the good things in their lives. Once a week or so, take the initiative to get up a little earlier and go to breakfast with some of these people. I'm a member of a group that does just that. It's a very special way to start the day.

• Get to work as early as you can and spend some quiet time settling in before everyone else arrives. If this is hard, offer yourself some small personal reward. (Mine is that first lingering cup of coffee, all alone, while opening my very exciting email.)

• Do what I call the "icky" things first. Even the most fantastic job includes tasks that aren't much fun. If you get them out of the way, the rest of the day will fly by.

• Make a list at the end of every day of what you learned, what was the most fun, who was the most fun to interact with, and how you feel you added to your group's success. A list of the 'beyond the paycheck' benefits. If you only work for the paycheck you will be employed, but not 'employable' long term.

There are many realistic ways to keep your relationships and your jobs exciting and challenging. Ultimately, your happiness depends on how good you feel about yourself at work, in love, and just living everyday. Try doing something nice for your job and yourself. Fall in love all over again!

aNd i sAy..

10:48 AM

Y Thursday, September 13, 2007

=Momentum=

Sometimes things may get a little tough and your objective-mindedness may not be as easy as before. Well, this happens to everyone and it's ok.

Take these times just to focus on momentum. As we're only human, sometimes the only thing we can do is to push onward until the storms are clear and providence brings you peace. Take a leap of faith and simply continue onwards.

"Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving."-Albert Einstein

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=Rebirth=

We have been provided a cyclical schedule for the purposes of redemption and rebirth, that we might rise from the ashes of yesterday and find a newlife, new motivations and new outlooks today. It is by divine providence that we are not just blessed with the capacity to start over but we are expected to do so.

Whatever negative experiences have happened to you, no matter your age or social standing you have been provided the right to redeem yourself and start again. It's never too late to have a new beginning but it's always too early to be at our end.

"One should count each day a separate life."-Seneca

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=The Sleeping Giant=

Most of us have talents of which we are not even aware as most of us live in fairly convenient, comfortable environments. However, once we face adversity or challenge we are forced to draw from a deeper source we may never have even tapped. This is not to say we need to be in precarious financial positions so much as we need to take risks. Once we begin to take risks we are faced with a challenge of overcoming the possible obstacles, naturally forcing us to find new sources of power and new talents and skills with which to manage these new challenges.

"~ Adversity has the effect of eliciting talents, which in prosperous circumstances would have lain dormant."-Horace

aNd i sAy..

4:29 PM